{"id":32526,"date":"2020-10-12T11:56:48","date_gmt":"2020-10-12T03:56:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/qqeng.net\/?post_type=learning&p=32526"},"modified":"2021-08-03T12:56:02","modified_gmt":"2021-08-03T04:56:02","slug":"online-dating-slang-terms-you-must-learn-in-2020","status":"publish","type":"learning","link":"https:\/\/qqeng.net\/vi\/Learning\/online-dating-slang-terms-you-must-learn-in-2020\/","title":{"rendered":"Ti\u1ebfng l\u00f3ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng trong h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn 2020"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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T\u1ea1i sao n\u00ean h\u1ecdc thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef h\u1eb9n h\u1ecd tr\u00ean tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn?<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>

Thu\u1eadn ng\u1eef Ti\u1ebfng l\u00f3ng<\/a><\/span> h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c qua internet.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/em><\/p>

Internet dating has shifted H\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u00ean Internet \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, m\u1edf \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng cho vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef m\u1edbi.<\/span><\/p>

\u201cHave you tried DM\u2019ing your crush in IG?\u201d<\/span><\/p>

\u201cHave you ghosted someone?\u201d<\/span><\/p>

\u201cLooking for bae.\u201d<\/span><\/p>

H\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn hay h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 qua Internet ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t xu h\u01b0\u1edbng m\u00e0 h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n xa l\u1ea1. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng c\u1ea5p trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn. V\u00e0 th\u1eadt ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u1ea7y ti\u1ebfng l\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m t\u00f2 m\u00f2 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00e0n anh.<\/p>

C\u00e1c thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef ti\u1ebfng l\u00f3ng v\u1ec1 H\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn ra \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7, internet v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u1ea3 v\u0103n h\u00f3a \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang. Nh\u1eefng thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef n\u00e0y, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, \u0111ang g\u00e2y b\u00e3o tr\u00ean Internet. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u01b0ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u ch\u00fang l\u00e0 g\u00ec v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ch\u00fang m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n.<\/p>

Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i khi nghe ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ma v\u00e0 th\u00e2y ma. Tuy nhi\u00ean, nh\u1eefng thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef n\u00e0y c\u0169ng bi\u1ec3u th\u1ecb \u00fd ngh\u0129a bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3 \/ \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3.<\/p>

V\u00ec v\u1eady, trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ebd li\u1ec7t k\u00ea m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef ti\u1ebfng l\u00f3ng h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2020. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i hy v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1ed7i khi b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef ti\u1ebfng l\u00f3ng h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn n\u00e0y.
Bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y ni\u1ec1m vui trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef ti\u1ebfng l\u00f3ng n\u00e0y?<\/p>

Bae<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>

Bae l\u00e0 d\u1ea1ng vi\u1ebft t\u1eaft c\u1ee7a \u201cbaby \/ babe\u201d. Ban \u0111\u1ea7u, thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef n\u00e0y l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 y\u00eau m\u1ebfn d\u00e0nh cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00e1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef ti\u1ebfng l\u00f3ng h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, hay ho ho\u1eb7c tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i n\u00f3i:<\/p>

\u201cThat man looks so hot. He is my future bae\u201d.\u201d<\/span><\/p>

\u201cCheck out what she\u2019s wearing! A true bae!\u201d<\/span><\/p>

Ghosting<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h2>

Ghosting x\u1ea3y ra khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t kh\u1ecfi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tin nh\u1eafn tr\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c g\u1ecdi, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n – kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nghe th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd n\u00f3i “T\u1ea1m bi\u1ec7t”, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa.<\/p>

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 b\u1ebb 1 m\u1eabu b\u00e1nh m\u00ec: ‘con ma c\u00e0 r\u1ed3ng’ s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean ng\u1eebng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi tin nh\u1eafn v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cu\u1ed9c g\u1ecdi, v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i.<\/p>

\u201cI\u2019m not feeling Tom anymore, but he\u2019s really into me. I think I\u2019m just going to ghost him.\u201d<\/span><\/p>

Sliding into DM\u2019s<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>

Khi b\u1ea1n slide cho ai \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o DM, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n g\u1eedi cho h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t tin nh\u1eafn tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp ri\u00eang t\u01b0. Thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n g\u1eedi tin nh\u1eafn cho ai \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng M\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. \u0110\u00f4i khi, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng PM thay v\u00ec DM nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn v\u00ec ch\u00fang gi\u1ed1ng nhau.<\/p>

Khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng trong c\u00e1c thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef l\u00f3ng h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn, DM thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra sau m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c c\u00f4ng khai, cho d\u00f9 th\u00edch m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c \u1ea3nh hay tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t c\u1ee7a nhau.<\/p>

“I know Josh and I are not in good terms. But do you think I should into his DM?”<\/span><\/p>

Benching<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>

Benching l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef ti\u1ebfng l\u00f3ng h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean quen thu\u1ed9c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra khi b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n v\u00e0 t\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng cho b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 cam k\u1ebft n\u00e0o v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c n\u00e0o. B\u1ea1n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c h\u1eb9n h\u00f2, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n \u1edf b\u00ean b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecd t\u00e1n t\u1ec9nh v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. N\u00f3i t\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo Benching ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecd \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai kh\u00e1c.<\/p>

\u201cThat\u2019s just crazy dude. She\u2019s benching you. Find another bae and move on!\u201d<\/span><\/p>

Catfishing<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>

\u0110\u00e1nh c\u00e1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef ti\u1ebfng l\u00f3ng h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn r\u1ea5t ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u00ednh sau b\u1ed9 phim t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u n\u0103m 2010, Catfish. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i l\u1eeba \u0111\u1ea3o tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a ng\u00e0y nay. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra khi ai \u0111\u00f3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o b\u1eaby.<\/p>

Nh\u1eafn tin v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang gi\u1ea3 l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c? B\u1ea1n \u0111ang b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1eeba! Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfn s\u00e2u v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n video ngay khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111ang l\u1eeba cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>

“My friends and I were catfishing at the club last night and at least 5 people noticed!”<\/span><\/p>

Cuffing Season<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>

Cuffing Season bao g\u1ed3m m\u00f9a thu v\u00e0 m\u00f9a \u0111\u00f4ng khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n gi\u1eef \u1ea5m v\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u1ea5m c\u00fang v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng. N\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n duy nh\u1ea5t ch\u1ec9 trong th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn. N\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd nh\u1eefng th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean c\u00f9ng c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t b\u1edd vai v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n v\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n mang t\u00ednh ch\u00f3ng v\u00e1nh.<\/p>

“Because of COVID-19, quarantine has become the new Cuffing Season for some celebrities”<\/span><\/p>

Genderfluid<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>

Thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef worldfluid l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb l\u00f3ng h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u kh\u00e1c khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i. Theo \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a, Gender \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh v\u00e0 t\u00ednh linh ho\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0 trong d\u00f2ng ch\u1ea3y, kh\u00f4ng \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 di chuy\u1ec3n, thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed5i gi\u1eefa nhi\u1ec1u gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh ho\u1eb7c gi\u1eefa c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh ho\u1eb7c thi\u1ebfu gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh \u0111\u00f3 trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u01a1 quan sinh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>

“Justine identified as a boy last week, a girl yesterday, and is \u2018agender\u2019 today. This makes them genderfluid.”<\/span><\/p>

Netflix and Chill<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>

Netflix v\u00e0 Chill nghe r\u1ea5t th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u1edbi \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n khi xem phim qua Netflix. Ban \u0111\u1ea7u, \u201cNetflix and chill\u201d l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef cho m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 \u1edf nh\u00e0 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c kh\u00e1 nhanh ch\u00f3ng. Khi b\u1ea1n m\u1eddi ai \u0111\u00f3 xem \u201cNetflix v\u00e0 th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n\u201d, b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd t\u1eeb b\u1ecf b\u1ed9 phim v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m thu h\u00fat ch\u00ednh m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i c\u1edb cho bu\u1ed5i quan h\u1ec7 (t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c)<\/p>

\u201cHow\u2019s your Saturday night?\u201d <\/span><\/p>

\u201cIt was terrific!\u201d<\/span><\/p>

\u201cWow. What happened?\u201d<\/span><\/p>

\u201cWell, I invited Lily in the house for a little Netflix and chill… you can guess what happened next.\u201d<\/span><\/p>

Open Relationship<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>

Thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef ti\u1ebfng l\u00f3ng ‘m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u1edf’ l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef \u0111i\u00ean r\u1ed3 nh\u1ea5t trong h\u1eb9n h\u00f2. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u1edf l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 trong \u0111\u00f3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n \u1edf b\u00ean nhau, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ee9a ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n t\u1ef1 do k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u00e0 ng\u1ee7 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>

“One thing I like about Jerry is that he gives me the freedom to enjoy my life. I can sleep and hook up with other men besides him. I\u2019m thinking of asking him for an open relationship.”<\/span><\/p>

DTR<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>

Khi ai \u0111\u00f3 th\u00fac gi\u1ee5c b\u1ea1n DTR ho\u1eb7c \u201cx\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7\u201d, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m r\u00f5 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn nghi\u00eam t\u00fac v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n (h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, b\u1ea1n trai nghi\u00eam t\u00fac, v.v.).<\/p>

“I don\u2019t know what we are. I guess we gotta do a little DTR\u2019ing tonight.”<\/span><\/p>

IRL<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>

IRL l\u00e0 ch\u1eef vi\u1ebft t\u1eaft c\u1ee7a \u201cIn Real Life\u201d. Thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef ti\u1ebfng l\u00f3ng n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 trong h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn m\u00e0 c\u00f2n tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Khi ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn IRL, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp b\u1ea1n, m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t.<\/p>

“I hope you are as sweet as you are now IRL.”<\/span><\/p>

Love Bombing<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>

M\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 “love bombing” \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi l\u00f4i k\u00e9o v\u00e0 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng. Chi\u1ebfn d\u1ecbch love bombing bao g\u1ed3m t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u1ea3 t\u1ea1o, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, s\u1ef1 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9, xu n\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e1p \u0111\u1ea3o m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau v\u00e0 che gi\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a k\u1ebb trong. cu\u1ed9c. Nh\u01b0 thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef g\u1ee3i \u00fd, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 cam k\u1ebft v\u1edbi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. Sau \u0111\u00f3, “v\u1ee5 \u0111\u00e1nh bom” x\u1ea3y ra khi h\u1ecd r\u00fat l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u00fd \u0111\u1ed3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, \u0111\u1ed9c \u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>

“The love bombing experienced I had with Joe was traumatic. I didn\u2019t know I was in a toxic relationship until my friends slapped me with the truth.”<\/span><\/p>

Slow Fade<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>

Slow fade x\u1ea3y ra khi b\u1ea1n bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng ch\u00fat m\u1ed9t sau khi nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia n\u1eefa.<\/p>

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 do s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec n\u00edu k\u00e9o n\u1eefa. Slow fade b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u khi li\u00ean l\u1ea1c th\u01b0a d\u1ea7n cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi h\u1ebft h\u1eb3n. Sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n k\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y.<\/p>

“I don\u2019t want to hurt her, but I no longer love her. Do you think a slow fade is better rather than confronting her?”<\/span><\/p>

Zombies<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>

Trong khi Ghosting l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t th\u00ec Zombie l\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. Zombie l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd quay l\u1ea1i ngay trong DM c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>

Zombies th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra ngay sau khi b\u1ea1n h\u1ed3i ph\u1ee5c sau n\u1ed7i \u0111au m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111em l\u1ea1i. Sau \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean h\u1ecd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tinh vi, g\u00e2y ra nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu.<\/p>

“I thought John and I are over. I have not heard from him for two weeks and guess who slides me a DM on Instagram. He\u2019s zombieing me and I find it creepy.”<\/span><\/p>

Asexual<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>

Kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb thu h\u00fat t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nam hay n\u1eef. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a k\u1ef3 l\u1ea1 c\u1ee7a thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn v\u00f4 t\u00ednh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 t\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 hai gi\u1edbi nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed tham gia v\u00e0o c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kho\u00e1i c\u1ea3m v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c, v.v.<\/p>

\u201cHalsey, it seems you\u2019re getting cozy with Cara. Are you guys dating? I believe she\u2019s asexual, not lesbian.\u201d<\/span><\/p>

\u201cCara\u2019s asexual and likes boys! Do you think that\u2019s not possible?\u201d<\/span><\/p>

B\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi h\u1ecdc t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef ti\u1ebfng l\u00f3ng h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn n\u00e0y? C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u1edf trong m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n m\u1edbi, ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng n\u00e0o?<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>

Nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2y, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef ti\u1ebfng l\u00f3ng m\u1edbi v\u00ec ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 v\u0103n h\u00f3a \u0111ang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n.<\/p>

B\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean bi\u1ebft c\u00e1c xu h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb l\u1ea1c trong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh.<\/p>

S\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng n\u00e2ng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn l\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n m\u1edbi? T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n h\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef ti\u1ebfng l\u00f3ng n\u00e0y v\u00e0 gi\u1eef cho h\u1ed9p th\u01b0 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt v\u1edbi DM.<\/p>

Ch\u00fac may m\u1eafn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c s\u0103n t\u00ecm t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u00ean internet b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u!<\/p>

B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ecdc th\u00eam? B\u1ea5m v\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc th\u00eam nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i \u0111\u1ecdc th\u00fa v\u1ecb kh\u00e1c!<\/a><\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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